The inspiration for this post came from watching The Steve Harvey Show last week on a snow day. Steve interviewed a girl who kept saying that she was going on dates, but it never worked out. This girl spilled her guts and was completely intense on the first date. She was telling the guy what she was feeling, and was putting him on the spot about how he felt. She also brought up what she wanted for the future. I wish I had a video clip to attach, because it was just so awkward!!!
Dating is an interesting process. If you want to find love, there are many different ways to meet people. You can meet someone out, meet someone online, be set up with someone, or now you can even meet people on various apps. However you meet someone, here are some tips to help you get ready for that first date:
1. Get to know that person through texts and phone calls before you meet up. See if there's good conversation. That way, when you actually meet up, you have a variety of things to talk about. If you feel comfortable, check them out on Facebook.
2. Wear an outfit you feel beautiful and confident in. Treat yourself to a new outfit! You want to show your date your style!
3. Steer clear of discussing where you want to be in the future. You're on this date because you're both looking to find a companion. Leave the "marriage/baby" talks for when things get serious.
4. Don't forget to laugh and smile. You're both in a slightly nerve racking situation. Make things fun!
5. Let your date know if you'd like to see them again. Don't be afraid to text your date after you get home to say thank you!
6. Only plan to do lunch/dinner/coffee together. Don't have an entire day planned. Go on your first date with no pressure. Leave the whole-day dates for future dates.
7. Trust your gut. If something tells you that he or she isn't the one, trust it!
You'll know when you find someone who deserves more of your time...and if your date feels the same way about you, I can assure you that they'll be looking to make plans with you for a second date before the first one ends!! In the meantime, look at this as an opportunity to meet someone new!
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